![]() ![]() Several parts of my personality contribute to my cluttered house very sentimental, being indecisive, and a “perfectionist” needing for it to be perfect decision, feeling responsible to EVERYONE, grown up poor where any nice things I was given were sold, own a business which requires me to be a crafty renovator/ property stager. I’ve been blessed by my loved ones who have passed and left me their prized possessions and then I need to make decisions on what to keep and feel guilty about it. It seems like I have one step forward and two back. I’ve been chipping away at it for YEARS and recently joined another daily organizing method. So happy to see this addressed by FotF FB page! Clutter is depressing me! Guaranteed results (money back guarantee!).Feel comfortable inviting people to your home again.I would love to hear your story of how you’ve broken up with some of your clutter- give us specifics – we need some hope from those of you who are living free!īreak up with Clutter in just 14 days! Get Kathi’s Kickstart to Clutter Free eCourse today and kick that clutter to the curb sister! Have a friend ask you what you brought home that day- or better yet – what you got rid of! Challenge each other to get rid of 100 things (and no fair checking out each other’s stash to see what you may want to bring home.) Get rid of it, once and for all and celebrate each other’s success! Have you ever told a friend, “Ask me every day if I’ve called him!” Well it’s the same with clutter. Know your clutter weakness areas – the Dollar Store, the office supply aisle at Target, thrift stores, antique malls – and make a plan with exactly what you’re coming home with. The best place to stop clutter is in the store- don’t buy it in the first place. Refuse to let clutter come through the door.Don’t just put the donations in the back of your car, drive straight to the donation station and dump that clutter (anything that would be useful to someone else, but is no longer taking care of you, that is.) Putting it in the garage so it’s out of site, until you can turn around in the garage… Make a clean break from your clutter. It’s so easy to revisit your clutter- putting it in a box to look at later. Clutter makes the same demands – isolating you and making you bend to its will. I spent less time with my family and my school friends, and started to change my personality to accommodate him. Clutter lies to you every chance it gets.Ĥ. Clutter says you’re not creative, not smart, not passionate. Clutter tells you that you will never change. Clutter is lazy, and wants you to do all the work.Ĭlutter calls you lazy even though your coworkers always tell you what a hard worker you are. ![]() ![]() Clutter doesn’t want you going out – it wants you stuck at home, tending to it. Just like a bad boyfriend, your clutter is constantly jealous. It convinces you – YOU! – you bright, intelligent, passionate woman, that you can’t handle your life and that you should just settle.Ģ. “You don’t have enough time for me – what makes you think you’ll have time for that.” He kept you from dreaming about the better life you could have and wanted you to settle. ![]() That boyfriend discouraged you from going for your degree or getting a better job. Clutter, wants to make sure you know that you’re not good enough for anything better. “I would be able to get so much more accomplished if I didn’t have to deal with so much clutter.”Īnd when we start to see our clutter in the light of a bad relationship – the need to break up with it becomes oh, so much clearer.ġ. “I can never find anything when I need it.” Since writing my book Clutter Free, I’ve heard every complaint about clutter, but for the first time, I started to see the correlation between the things that women say about bad relationships and the clutter that is ruining their lives. Like the guys who told her, “Oh, I thought maybe you’d lose some weight since you took your profile picture.”īut as she was telling me some of the worst points about the guys she and her friends have dated, it started to feel oh so familiar. And after hearing about her adventures out there, it makes me doubly grateful for my husband Roger.īecause while Roger is one of the good guys, there are a whole lot of bad guys. My friend Sarah (not her real name,) is out there. ![]()
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